I am having a problem. I am 25 years old and I recently found a girl for the first time. Because I have never been with a girl, I am finding it difficult to go on a date with her, not that I am afraid, but I just don't know. We have made plans to see each other twice, which she was anxiously awaiting but it never happened.

I need your advice.

D., Portmore, St Catherine

Dear D.,

you should never be afraid of women. When you get to know a good woman, there will be no turning back for you. So whenever you have made a date with a woman, make sure you keep that date. If the problem is that you don't know what to talk about on the date, before you go on the date, try to find out what her hobbies are, so that you can make conversation. Remember that she too would have certain things in her mind to talk to you about.

When people go on dates they just want to have clean fun. And if they find the persons with whom they have gone are interesting, they would want to go again. If you are not sure of yourself, don't try to date the prettiest girl for a start. Find one who will be glad to go with you.

Pastor