As a famous quote says - "You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel."
Feelings are a very powerful tool humans have and we should always thank God for them, as they can save us from many things if we listen to them. Many times we come to the break-up of a relationship we are unable to understand why we did not anticipate it. Go back and look at how you felt at certain times in your relationship with this person, concentrate on your feelings during your relationship. Did your feelings not tell you about this outcome?
Let us find out more. Sometimes we get confused in a relationship. We seek advice from friends and family and discuss and think about what may be going wrong. We do not pay attention to what our feelings tell us. Have you observed your feelings for friends? Some of them you like instantly while you never like some of them despite any arguments having taken place. Our subconscious mind tells us about the true character of that person and draws us away. But we do not listen to our heart and we may fall in a wrong relationship that we regret later.
Feelings are like radars. They watch over everything and transmit the message. Many persons in an abusive relationship keep hoping that things will improve. Though their feelings tell them that the situation will rather worsen. It is question of hope against reality. Our feelings tell us about the reality. Our desires give us hope. Listen to your feelings and realize your true worth.
Why many of us do not listen to our feelings? This is because we feel unworthy. We feel that others are more intelligent and will give us right advice. We are less capable than others. This causes the problems. Pay attention to what others say but let your feelings be the final judge.
So recognize the words of your heart and you will soon realize that world is so beautiful. Feel love and make others feel loved because "People may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel."