I'm writing this letter because I don't know what to do. I'm in a situation where I'm dating two guys. I really care for both of them and they treat me really well. One of the guys knows about the other. One of the guys asked me to marry him, but I can't accept his proposal because of the other guy.

Pastor, what should I do? Also, I'm crazily in love with another guy in Jamaica. I want to spend the rest of my life with the guy in Jamaica. I'm deeply in love with him and he is in love with me also.

N.P., New York, USA