I am 19 years old and I am always thinking about my grandmother. She is always wearing some short stuff. She is very sexy. She is always embracing me. I can't stop thinking of her. She always opens her legs in front of me. I think of her every minute of the day. Sometimes I feel like I am in love with her. I want to be intimate with her.

Do you think I should tell her that I am in love with her? She always turns me on. When I brace myself against her she doesn't say anything. She touches me in my secret places and tells me she likes me so much and she wants to be intimate with me. I want to feel close to her too. I love her so much. I love her thick legs. You can feel real close to an old woman and don't have to worry about AIDS. I love my grandmother. She makes me feel close to her. She gives me pleasure.

Pastor, is this a sin? In some countries like India, you are allowed to be intimate with your family members. I don't think what I am doing is wrong. I am in love and I won't stop.

J. T., St. Andrew, Jamaica

Dear J. T.,

You know that what your grandmother is doing is wrong and you know that what you are doing is wrong. Whether it is in India or Jamaica, if you become sexually involved with your grandmother it is a gross sin. The Bible calls it incest and God condemns such sexual behaviour.

Do you really mean that your grandmother is showing you her private part and touching you on yours? What an immoral grandma! Both of you are depraved and need God in your lives. Both of you don't have any shame. Grandma must be crazy, totally out of her mind. And you are heading in that direction too.

Whenever your grandmother opens her legs before you or tries to seduce you, tell her to close her legs. Tell her that what she is doing is affecting you and you know that it is wrong. Get down on your knees and pray and ask God to save your grandmother and you. Keep out of grandma's way. Don't be with her alone.

You said that you won't stop from wanting your grandmother. I must put it to you that if you ever have sex with your grandmother, you will be bringing curse upon yourself. Do you want to be cursed by God?

Pastor