Dear K.W.,
 It is common for women whove had children to develop loose vagina syndrome. Having one baby, your vagina shouldnt be all that slack. Pelvic exercises might well help you, but first of all, I would like you to go and get a vaginal examination done by a gynaecologist who is used to sorting out this particular problem.
 The fact that your man thinks the problem isnt helped by you becoming so moist during oral sex is something you should be concerned about. I personally dont think that theres anything wrong with you at all. To me your man is a bit delicate and maybe not very comfortable with a woman who is very turned on by sex. Most men would adore a woman whose juices flowed copiously during oral sex. But some men arent as comfortable with cunnilingus as they make out, and theyre a bit put off by a woman who is sexy, juicy and enthusiastic.
 If this is the case with your man, I have to say that youll probably come to the conclusion that hes got the problem - not you.