Members Login
Username 
 
Password 
    Remember Me  
Chatbox
Please login or register to participate in the chat
djromie (Mzja Dj) wrote
December 31st
sayhello blessed new year
 
tallboss876 wrote
November 16th
hail
 
djromie (Mzja Dj) wrote
October 15th
anyone dehya
 
djromie (Mzja Dj) wrote
October 15th
csmi di ting up like7 again sayhello
 
Mediiazone Forums → MZ @ 2013 :: A Owa Endz → News & Topical Issues → Why Caribbean men don't want to support their youths...BADANG!!!
 

Topic: Why Caribbean men don't want to support their youths...BADANG!!!

Page 1 of 1  sorted by
Wide (rest of width)
Narrow (200px)
lyndo
"Lyndo Fi Di Gal Dem"
Status: Offline
Posts: 4955
Date:

Why Caribbean men don't want to support their youths...BADANG!!!
Permalink  
Why Caribbean men don't want to support their youths

By: Rootzgirl

Rasta-Girl-Posters.jpgI have a very important question to ask and I am not bashing anyone right now...but seriously why is it that Caribbean baby mothers are having a hard time getting support for their kids?

You were having a nice time with the man, he treats you fine ...everything is dandy and then the woman gets pregnant...but then for whatever reason he messed up, you mess up...who knows...at the end of the day the relationship is over.

The sad thing is that the man forgot he broke up with you...and not the child in question and to add insult to injury he will only take care of the child if you are still in the mix.

One woman who was involved with a man from the Caribbean vented her frustrations to YardFlex, "Him teck di madda fat and a fry di pickney dem. Him damn well and know and understand the psychological part of it...sometime a feel so emotional imbalanced especially as is more dan one me have to look after."

On the flip side of the coin, some mothers are now ignoring their children and mistreating them just because the man is no longer around. It's even worse when the kids come out 'dead stamp' of the father, the ill treatment is multiplied then! But credit must be given to the strong sisters out there who in those cases become both the mother and the father for their kids giving them a balanced environment, nurturing and bringing them up the best way they know how with the result being the children are even more balanced than those coming from two parents home.

At the end of the day, I just have to say that some of these fathers just need to be more conscientious about handling these situations. It doesn't matter if the relationship has gone sour, the responsibilities are still there. Spend quality time with your children and take good care of them. The same goes for the mothers, it's not about the man it's about that child you brought into the world, stop taking out your anger and frustration on an innocent victim.

Posted by yardFlex at April 23, 2008 10:37 AM

__________________
Crazypickney
̿̿ ̿̿'̿'̵͇̿̿=(•̪●)=/̵͇̿̿/'̿̿ ̿ ̿ ̿
Status: Offline
Posts: 9753
Date:
Permalink  
pity fi real star

__________________

STUWY77
jamaicaadverts.com
Status: Offline
Posts: 10001
Date:
Permalink  
wid the rate of jacket here a man muss have doubts yow.

__________________

mediabanner.gif
empressmonifa
Breaking Out Type
Status: Offline
Posts: 320
Date:
Permalink  
I would personally love to know the answer to dis??? mi wan know why man grown enough to lay down up dem nuh man enough fi support dem yute? thats the greatest gift you could reiceve

__________________
lilweezy
Noobs
Status: Offline
Posts: 269
Date:
Permalink  
if they had a family court system like the states then could do what they r doing

__________________
Obama 2008: Politics not Politricks
steppz
Super Member
Status: Offline
Posts: 3723
Date:
Permalink  
mi nuh kno only father god kno botu sum man inno

__________________

lion-mating-picture-.jpg<<The only order MALE+FEMALE
minksta
MZJA Gangsta Girl
Status: Offline
Posts: 1237
Date:
Permalink  
lol @ Stuwy, but unuh man need to fi tek care a unuh pickney despite seh nuff man get jacket wha dem haffi a wear till it squeeze dem

__________________

mrs kalongi
***MZ Hotness***
Status: Offline
Posts: 4589
Date:
Permalink  
den need fi have child support

__________________
http://i41.tinypic.com/2cnv1ud.jpg
general
MZ Guru
Status: Offline
Posts: 1406
Date:
Permalink  
???

__________________



http://www.burstnet.com/gifs/ba_sv_caesar_041603.gif
Buddah
Super Member
Status: Offline
Posts: 2588
Date:
Permalink  
hmmmm

__________________
BuDdAh
Msz JayBee
The Angelic One
Status: Offline
Posts: 6098
Date:
Permalink  
Why do they wanna blame this on Caribbean men in particular? This is something all men around the world do. I don't agree with the term " caribbean men' at all. It makes it seem like all Caribbean men who are fathers don't take care of their own. There are men in general all over the world who doesn't take care of their kids and there are some who do. I know some men are wutliss and just simply don't wanna take care of theirs but there are others who honestly don't kno whether the child is theirs. God knows some women nasty and will want to pass a raffle child of but in that instance get a paternity test.

-- Edited by So_InTriCat3 at 16:07, 2008-08-03

__________________
shamar
*Sham-Rock Production*
Status: Offline
Posts: 10788
Date:
Permalink  
hmm

__________________
empressmonifa
Breaking Out Type
Status: Offline
Posts: 320
Date:
Permalink  
i agree with InTriCat3.. you have to stressthe fact that theres men world wide justa breed women then gone bout dem buisness.. i have nuff respect for all men a tek care of them yute.. they dont get enough credit... too bad i cant say that bout my own baby father

__________________
Page 1 of 1  sorted by
Quick Reply

Please log in to post quick replies.
 
Tweet this page Post to Digg Post to Del.icio.us