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Dear Dr. Flex,My boyfriend who I have been with for over a year, just confessed that he had a brief affair with an old flame a few months ago. He promised me he would never do it again, and begged me to take him back. We have been having a lot of problems lately, but I really love him. Would I be stupid to give him another chance?
D.B., St. Catherine

Dear D.B.,
Give the man credit for being honest with you. At least he feels remorse, knows what he did was wrong, and doesnt want to lose you. You said it yourself that you have been having problems lately, so you know that the affair is just a reflection of underlying issues you can no longer ignore.
 

You wouldnt be stupid to give your boyfriend another chance. An affair doesnt have to signify the end of a relationship. In fact, in some cases, if both partners are willing to work hard, an affair can bring problems that were lurking in the depths of the relationship up to the surface for the purpose of healing. Since your relationship is relatively new, its likely that you are both still settling into your commitment to one another, or at least he is.
 
It sounds like your boyfriend may be having some difficulty letting go completely of his former lover. If he is sincere, and you feel he is worth it, and you can let go of what happened (not easy!) it is possible that you could both use this crisis to stop, evaluate the relationship, and go forward differently.
 
His saying Im sorry isnt enough. Just because he is not cheating on you anymore doesnt mean the problem has disappeared, it hasnt. It is still there but it is in remission. Dont delude yourself into believing the coast is clear now that hes apparently being faithful again. If this man really loves you and truly doesnt want to lose you, he will thank his lucky stars that you are willing to give him another chance.
 
 


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boi, only a few honest. she must really know how har man stay in order to take him back or not

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me personally would not giv second chance,u do it once u likely 2 do again emote.img?ID=449

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one a cheater always a cheater

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SECOND CHANCE

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IF A MAN THA LADIES CAN GI HIM A CHANCE COZ MOST MAN ANO DEM WANT TO DO IT ITS JUS THERE DICK.............AND THE DICK HAV A BRAIN OF ITS OWN SUH WEN IT SEH SUMTHING DI MAN AFFI JUS WORK WID IT.............COZ WEN DI DICK SEH HIM NAA STAN UP DI WAN CAA DO NUTTIN GI GET IT UP.............SUH A DI HOOD A DI BOSS .............SUH LADIES WEN UNU MAN CHEAT JUS UNDA STAND A JUS WORK WID IT COZ MOST ADI TIME ANO HIM WANT TO DO IT ....ITS JUS GREATER POWERS TAKE OVA

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mi agree wid yuh linko

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mi agree to

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me agree also

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COOL NUH ROHAN AN DJBUDI

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oh well.....

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LMO..LMAO..LMAO..LMAO... LMAO.. is a streamline a ediat dem yah lmao..lmao..A deso it deh now? penis have brain dats why unuh cheat...dats why unuh sex man to, unuh penis tell unuh***kiss teett** lol..lmao.

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STAINLES DAT Y CRAZY DUMP U COZ WEN DI WANT DI RIFLE U CAN SERVE HAR............SUH DATS Y SHE GUH LICK SKEN....BUT SKEN NAA DUH NUTTIN EDA SUH SHE FINE ME............NOW U CANT GET IT BAK

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lol

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WA U SEH CALOS STAIN LESS NAA SERVE HAR RIGHT SUH SHE GET RID OF HIM.............N GET DI REAL TING

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wid cheating u can use your discretion an decide if the partner is really sorry. When sumone cheats you should also assume responsibility for it. no doubt you were or are doing/ not doing something which caused them to go elsewhere in the first, so use the opportunity to change for the better, for use of a better word, IMPROVE.

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linko if a you a service har tell mi where here birth mark is??...lol..and yu a kill yuself cuz she nuh want a man whey a cheat and go talk bout a him hood fault, cuz it brain lol lmao

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linko wrote:

IF A MAN THA LADIES CAN GI HIM A CHANCE COZ MOST MAN ANO DEM WANT TO DO IT ITS JUS THERE DICK.............AND THE DICK HAV A BRAIN OF ITS OWN SUH WEN IT SEH SUMTHING DI MAN AFFI JUS WORK WID IT.............COZ WEN DI DICK SEH HIM NAA STAN UP DI WAN CAA DO NUTTIN GI GET IT UP.............SUH A DI HOOD A DI BOSS .............SUH LADIES WEN UNU MAN CHEAT JUS UNDA STAND A JUS WORK WID IT COZ MOST ADI TIME ANO HIM WANT TO DO IT ....ITS JUS GREATER POWERS TAKE OVA



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@ CALOOS U LOSE YUTE ...................U CANT GET HAR BAK

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lol

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