There are men who travel on buses and rub themselves on women. Let me tell you, Pastor, this does not only happen in Jamaica. This happened to me last year in London on my way to work. The bus was crowded and I had to stand up. I have been in packed buses before so it wasn't any problem. I realised a man was standing very close to me. No matter how buses are packed, people just don't stand that close to other people to be touching any part of them.

I knew he was up to something but I thought maybe he was trying to pick my pocket. I felt him wining up himself on my bottom. Every inch I moved forward, he moved with me until I turned sideways, then he eased off. I really couldn't believe that was what he was up to, but I could tell by the look in his eyes. I wanted to shout and curse him on the bus but, because I have never heard of people doing this before, I didn't want to accuse him falsely. I even wanted to mention it to my friend when I got home, but even then I couldn't believe what had happened. I think some of the other people on the bus noticed him, because of the way they were looking at him.

K.,

Dear K.,

Sick people are everywhere and they belong to every race, tribe and tongue. Some men get their kicks by just looking at women and some by rubbing up themselves on women in crowded areas and on buses etc. These men are known as frottagers. They engage in rubbing up themselves on women in crowded transports such as buses. It is a form of masturbation.

These men need professional help. However, when they are caught, they should be exposed. Some women are afraid to challenge them because these men may retaliate by using weapons etc. On the other hand, some may be so ashamed that they get off the bus as soon as they can.

Pastor