#1. A Well-trained Tongue-Focus on her entirely
It may sound like less of a fantasy and more of a sex tip, but a lot of women want their men to focus on their entire bodies. "I want him to lick and kiss everything from my ankles to the small of my back. I want him to arouse sensations that come from somewhere other than my vagina," said one woman.
Maybe spending a little time on her inner thigh or kissing her wrist is not such a bad idea. And by doing so, she will likely do it to you as well, and who knows, maybe penetration will take a backseat to sensation.
Okay, I know what you think now. That she wants you to get down on her... Perhaps. But more than that, theres something else she wants in bed: hearing compliments. "The word "you" sounds sexy to a woman because you're referring to her as opposed to the act of sex.

#2. Full-body Lovemaking-Longer, more vocal oral sex
Now, on to your deeds down there. What do women secretly want? They want you to get deep down in there with your mouth, use your fingers, and when necessary, penetrate her with your penis for a little while, and then get busy again with your mouth.
Want to be perceived as a great lover? Then you must do more than getting your pleasure and moving on. Once you touch her, caress her entire body, not just her hardened nipples and the wet spot between her legs. Before even touching these hot spots, take your time to fondle her in less obvious places, like her neck and behind the ears. Trace slow, circular waves along your partner's most sensitive zones: her inner thighs, lower back and the palm of her hands.\

#3. Lead without Inhibitions-Curse like a sailor
In the spirit of being vocal, believe it or not, dirty talk was mentioned quite often. But it wasn't the flowery variety; the talk that many women wanted was downright nasty. She wants you to take the lead and hold the space for her to surrender to your enjoying her. Nothing is more masculine than taking the lead and showing that you have direction, you know what you want and you're going for it. The most common sexual fantasy for women is to be dominated in bed. Take her hands and place them over her head while you kiss her neck and whisper "You like this." And, thats not a question. Instead, tell her, "It's okay to go slow" or, "Im going to take off your bra" or, Im going to make love to you all night" or, "Next time, I'm going to f*ck you even harder". Also, stop being gentle when you make love. Women want to be taken, to be ravished. She'll be wildly turned on by mildly rough sex and explicit, downright sexual talk that would make her blush outside the bedroom. She wants to feel that you are going wild for her, and because of her.

#4: Good Sexual Performance-Get aggressive in bed
Wantin him to have raunchy sex with me and talk to me as though he just met me and cares nothing about what I want. I want him to ravish me like an animal and tell me to be quiet whenever I try to say something." Wow!
Just about every woman I encountered had the words "more aggressive sex" rolling off her tongue. From being tied up and spanked to having their hair pulled and being mildly asphyxiated, the women were quite enthusiastic about aggressive sex.I'm not implying that you should go home and smack your b!$%h up, but instead, maybe a little roughing in the bedroom can work wonders for your sex life. And if that's not enough, these women didn't simply want their men to be more aggressive; they wanted to, on occasion