OK ppl keep running their mouths about me not posting or saying anything in here....

Since you all are so pre-occupied with what I don't do,,I hope you are just as pre-occupied with what I am about to write.

Now i am a Jamaican, from a middle class family,currently studying in Canada. I have seen most of what Jamaica has to offer and so has the world. As much as I love Jamaica, there so too much slackness going on in the dancehall-especially with women.

We all know this, we all are apart of it, we all encourage it, we sell it to other countries and based on how we present ourselves, thats how we are viewed.

Case in point the whole Daggering shit. I support the banning of it. wHY? bECAUSE we Jamaicans are taking enjoyment and music too far. Although we may say this is not new, afterall it was no different from what was being done in Passa Passa etc. we must admit that we are it to the extreme.

Half of the shit that is being done in dancehall scene should only be done at home.

YOu know what though, I am not even going to blame the men. I am not even going to blame poverty. Poverty is no excuse for self-humiliation. Poverty is no excuse for lack of self respect. I am specifially talking about the women. If women were not on the floor spreading out their legs and letting guys skydive between them, men wouldn't have anything to blanket the fall. For all i know it would be some dumb ass man who would skydive on the ground-without a woman underneath him.

Why is it ladies that we feel the need to enjoy ourselves with a man( most of them we dont even know) bending us over and ramming us from behind?

Why is it that today we dont feel the need to have any respect for ourselves in public?

How can you find satisfaction in knowing that you are over 18 0r a mother at a dance yet you have a 7 or 9 year old boy wrapped around your waist grinding on you?

I think ladies need to clean their act up...men only do what they do because you allow yourselves to be tried like a cheap piece of meat. You know the sad part about it? the meat is spoil and will be discarded at the end of the night.

You think decent men are going to marry women who behave like that? Women should not be complaining about finding a decent man. If i was a man-decent at that ,you think I'd want to be with a woman who is not on my level. Its not even about money, because sometimes you have the poorest of women who are with the richest of men and its all because men respect what you stand for.

I understand that at home, upton and downtown is obvious and people find different ways to enjoy themselves. I get it, but its the same music, its the same vybe, but we need to equally be respectful of our bodies and mind.

I really dont care who is pissed at this comment.

The truth hurts and the truth is that nobody sees Jamaican women as educated and decent-unless maybe you're from the uptown. People see jamaican women as pure sexual objects, who suppose to grind sweet and whine good.The anger from females towards daggering being banned only proves that yes apparently jamaican women can only enjoy themselves if they're being rammed like some animals.

women we need to Clean our act up......dont blame men...because if you respect yourself ...they will respect you..