Q: I've been married for 27 years. I love my husband very much, but I can't seem to get past something that happened. The other night while we were in the middle of making love, he called me by another name. Needless to say, that ended the lovemaking for the night. He has apologized over and over for doing it. He seems to be sincere, but I still can't get it out of my head. I don't think he's having an affair, but one never knows. Am I being too sensitive? What can I do to get over this? — J.S., 48, Detroit
A: You're not being too sensitive. Your man stuck his foot in his mouth at the worst possible moment and has shaken your trust, which is the basic foundation of the marriage. Way to go, hubster! Your shrugging this off with no thought to what it might mean would actually display a worrisome insensitivity on your part.
Bwoy da one deh hard...and of course the men are gonna be biased and say it was an accident and she should forgive but no man man it kinda difficultish...id probly forgive but id never forget and from then on, he'd be walking on eggshells and he'd have to work EXTRA hard to earn bacc my trust...
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Tess u killin me..... its like wen they say "call my name baby" sometimes i have to think hard wat he be called so me jus say (after a good minute) " Oh yess baby )
@ -M- me now aan no man mine me!!!!! INDEPENDENCE!!!!! n re: d topic....4give bt NEVER forget.... dem on a thin ass line after dat....(its gonna be fun making him do EVRYTING)
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