He beats her for anal sex - Now she's a lesbian

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Dear Mr. Proppa Fix
I am a 19 year old Jamaican born young lady, who currently resides in Miami. I am what you might consider to be attractive as I have a light complexion, with long hair and a coco cola bottle shape. As a result of this, I never had a problem with getting attention from guys ever since I developed. To make matters worse, my body developed early, and I noticed that all the boys in my neighborhood and even my fathers friends started to give me more attention.

Even though a lot of boys liked me, I tried to keep my intimate boyfriends to a minimal because I didnt want people to view me as a b*tch. No matter how I tried, all the guys that I dated all turned out to be dogs. I always tried to be faithful to them and nine out of ten times they either cheat or start to act up on me.

My worse relationship was with this married guy that was a bit older than me and was very abusive and sexually perverted. He wanted to experience me from the back door (Butt) - all kinds of sh*t and he would beat me if I didnt comply with his wishes. After leaving him, I sort of began to give up on men totally because I have had so many bad experiences it just didnt make sense to be with them. I would settle for a one night stand whenever I got the urge, but I found that I needed more in terms of comfort and security.

This is where my problems really begun - my best friend is a bisexual female and ever since we have been friends; she has been trying to convince me to have sex with her. I used to say no, but ever since my bad experience with the married man, the idea of giving up men totally has become more attractive. One night we were home alone and she begged me to let her make me have an orgasm and to be honest with you, when she licked my p*ssy I felt like I was in another galaxy.
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Since that time, I have found that I want nothing to do with men because women have become more and more appealing to me. My best friend and I now live together and we cant get enough of each other. At times I really wonder if what I am doing is right and I know if my family, particularly - if my parents ever have the slightest idea of my new love, they would disown me.

Mr. Proppa Fix I am really confused at this time because I am not getting any younger and at some point my family will get suspicious as to why I never talk about any male partners and why I never talk about marriage or kids. Do you think I should give up on men completely and become a full time lesbian?
I desperately await your advice,

-R.C.

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Dear R.C.
You seem to be somebody that lacked guidance during your teenage years when it matters the most. There are certain things that your parents should have talked to you about and I really dont think that this was done. Issues like sexuality and morality should have been dealt with within the household.

I must say, however that your situation is not uncommon, so do not feel like you are alone. There are many people out there that are going through the same kind of confusion.
I have told many people who have come to my counseling sessions with relationship problems that the reason why they cannot find a good partner is entirely to do with them. You need to do some self examination to determine what it was that you were doing to attract all the dogs, whether it may be how you dress, how you behave in public or even the places you go and the company you keep.

How can you possibly complain for what the married man did to you? Entering into a relationship with him is a clear indication that you dont value yourself, so how could he value you? That is why he treated you like a sex slave.

I really think that your issues run much deeper than what you have written in this letter and it is impossible to help you fully through the internet. I think that the best thing for you to do is to get some counseling / therapy so that you can learn to love and respect yourself and hopefully find your identity as a person.

Personally I do not agree with homosexuality for religious and moral reasons so I honestly think that if you get some counseling it would make it a lot easier for you to find the right man.
That is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it.