I have been involved with a married man for two years. We have a nine-month-old daughter together and he doesn't seem to talk about getting divorced anymore. He is a nice person, but he's not the type you can reason with. If I have a problem with him and try to talk to him about it, he starts to tell me all sorts of 'bad words'. He is not working, so I can do without him because I pay all my bills and take care of my daughter and him and still he disrespects me as he likes.

Tell me what to do, please, pastor.

S.M., Manchester, Jamaica