I'm in love with two guys, including a policeman aged 28. The thing is that we have been dating for six months on and off. I love him so much and he says he loves me, but I don't believe him. When he told me about his past I just find it hard to believe him. He has five kids with different mothers. He's so jealous. The thing is that I think it's all about sex. We don't go anywhere except to his house all the time for sex. He's always too tired to go anywhere, but never tired to have sex. I think he's just using me for sex.

We are off now and I want to make it for good this time, but I love him and he knows that, so he is always taking advantage of it. I guess he's waiting on me to call because that is something I always do.

The other guy lives in the country and I only see him on holidays. I know he loves me with all his heart and will do anything for me and I love him too, but I can't stop cheating on him with the police. The other guy is 20 years old.

Pastor, what should I do?

N.., Jamaica

Dear N. .,

If the policeman has five children with different women and he is supporting them, he wouldn't have any money to take you anywhere. A policeman's salary is not very big. How do you know that he wants to be seen with you?

The relationship between both of you right now is sour, so it is a good time for you to permanently end it. You said you have another boyfriend in the country, stick with him and leave the policeman alone.

Pastor