I have a friend and we are very close. He and his girlfriend live together. I spend a lot of time with them and over the years our relationship has grown very close. We go out together. We party together. I spend more time there than at my own place. For a few months now, we have even grown closer. One night while we were together we watched a few movies and after we became very fond of each other and my friends agreed that we all should have an orgy. Well, it worked and from then we have been having it, all three of us on a regular basis. My friend likes the idea and so does his female partner. We are all having a good time and really enjoy doing it.

My friend and I talk about it and he said I should not worry about a thing because he likes it and his girlfriend wants it to remain like that.

Pastor, are we doing something wrong? It feels good and I go home sometimes looking forward to it, all three of us.

R.W., Trelawny, Jamaica

Dear R. W.,

This man you consider your friend will never marry this woman. And you are not a good friend either. You shouldn't ask me if you are doing anything wrong. You know what is right from what is wrong.

What you have written about happened because you would not stay in your house. You spent more times at your friend's house because you had your eyes on his woman long ago. As a man, you should protect your friend's girlfriend, not to engage her in "orgy". What you all looked at were "blue movies" and decided to put into practice what you all saw.

Aren't you guys afraid of sexual transmitted diseases? Neither of you should be proud of what you are doing.

Pastor