I have a problem. I have a friend who is a nice person and everything you need in a friend, but she has a personal problem which I should share with you. She is sexually active and has a serious problem with her vagina. It smells very bad and she drains some yellow substances if she sits anywhere. I would love to know what kind of problem she is having. I would love to tell her about the odour, but I am so afraid it will hurt her. So give me some advice in breaking this news to her. Thanks for your advice. T.F., Jamaica Dear T.F., If you are truly her friend, you will tell her the truth. She wouldn't be upset with you. On the other hand, I wonder if you are not writing about yourself. How do you know that this girl has an unusual discharge (draining)? Do you see evidence after she gets up from where she was sitting? Anyway, whether you are writing about a friend or yourself, this person should seek the help of a doctor (preferably a gynaecologist) without delay. Pastor