Dear Dr. Flex,
I am having a problem reaching an orgasm with my boyfriend. Is there anything I can do about it? Awaiting your advice.
P.L., Kingston 13

Dear P.L.
It is not always possible to achieve orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. It often needs more direct stimulation of the clitoris, which you could request from your boyfriend orally or manually, before, after, during or instead of intercourse. Talking to your boyfriend and exploring what stimulates you and what doesnt should make you able to achieve orgasm during sex. You, on the other hand, could practice stimulating your clitoris to get orgasms. Another thing is that the mind has a lot to do with you getting it. I would suggest just before making love with your boyfriend, you help to stimulate yourself and get in the frame of mind to feel the sexual gratificatio