Players included research shows that men initially fall in love and that women get swept up by all the attention fall in love but in a deeper sense, more emotionally. Although men are the first to want to leave the relationship usually it is the women who leave first. With my own eyes I have seen several of the biggest players fall to pieces when their women broke up with them, even when they were cheating on the women. I wonder in amazement at these former lady killers as they break down. Unbelievable! Iwallace12 & uptothetime my deepest sympathies as you have not yet experienced a mature relationship. I am a B.A.M.F. but I still love my wife and kids.