I am a 56-year-old woman who is in love with an 18-year-old man. I love him very much and I think he loves me too. I have not kissed him or done anything with him because we are afraid of what people will say. I am a happily married woman for 20 years, but my husband does not know that I am having a relationship with a man who could be my grandson.

His mother found out about us and told his girlfriend. Both of them thought I was sick and beat the crap out of me, but I still love him all the same. I give him money, I buy him clothes, but most of all I give him love. I do not work but I take part of my husband's pay every month and give it to him. I am deeply in love with this sexy boy that could be my grandson.

Pastor, I am desperately in need of your advice. Please help me!

A.M., Hanover, Jamaica

Dear A.M.,

What a way you are hot and wicked. You are taking your husband's hard-earned cash and giving to this young man. What would happen if your husband should find out? How could you be so silly? What has gone into your head?

Come lady, stay far away from this young man. The next time his girlfriend beats you, you may end up in the hospital. Then you would not be able to hide what is going on between you and this guy from your husband. Stop playing around, woman. Read your Bible and pray and keep away from this young man.

Pastor