Dear Pastor,

I will be 16 years old soon. I was asked a question that I never thought a male would ask me. The exact words were, "Have your boyfriend ever performed oral sex on you?"

Pastor, I was so shocked that someone would ask me that, especially a friend of mine. He also told me he would pay me a fee of $3,000 and I should tell him the place and time.

Pastor, my question to you is, should I accept his offer? Am I the one being exposed to HIV?

L.B., Ontario, Canada

Dear L. B,

This man you consider to be your friend is out of order and what you should have done was to tell him to get lost, and immediately drop him as your friend. His purpose is to buy sex from you and to make you feel like a prostitute. You shouldn't even ask me whether you should accept his offer. That is something you shouldn't even consider at all. Tell him if he wants to buy sex, he should offer money to someone else and not you.