MOST MEN ONLY WA TOUCH PANTY ONLY DURING SEX  Y???????
IF U R A MAN WOULD U WASH U GIRLS DRAWSSS OURHANG THEM UP OUR TAKE THEM OFF D LIEN   ?????
WOULD U TOUCH IT IF SHE WAS SICK WHAT WOULD U DO ?????
ZONE GI ME UNU FEED BACK KA D CHAT ROOM A FLOOOOD WID DEM QUESTIONS YA LOL

WATCH

YOW SHE BADDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!




-- Edited by Justin *lo**z at 21:33, 2008-08-31

 

COUNT yourself lucky if you are one of those persons who have a really good girlfriend who you can be yourself with. We are not talking about a 'frenemy' who can't wait for an opportunity to knife you in the back, but the kind that is there for you when it matters most.

If you have such a friend then you had better try your best not to rock the friendship boat -- even when you find happily ever after with your beau. Here's why:

1. Girlfriends offer a good support system

Girlfriends are very supportive and won't hesitate to give you that shoulder to cry on if you need it. They are sensitive to your feelings and somehow know just what to do or say to make you feel better. Men are sometimes clueless when it comes to tapping into your deepest emotions.

2.Girlfriends are accessible

They are never more than a phone call away and no matter what, if you really need them, they will find the time to talk through the night with you. Men are not long talkers and will get impatient with your need to talk things through.

3. Good girlfriends are in it for the long haul

If you think about it, some of your girlfriends have outlasted even your marriage. Lovers come and go, but a good friend sticks around forever.

4.They love you for yourself

Your girlfriends know your deepest, darkest secrets and love you anyway. They don't judge, but are rather encouraging.

5. Challenges don't scare them

When the going gets tough girlfriends stick together, they find ways to weather out the storm. Men tend to run when things get sticky.

6. Only a girlfriend will do

When you want to cuss out and bad-mouth your spouse who is the cause of your distress, you can only unload on your girlfriend. After all, after the cussing-out session is through you can go back to your spouse fully vented!

-- Edited by jubalson on Thursday 24th of June 2010 08:52:10 AM

ITS ALL ABOUT BUSSA JOKE TUESDAY:
I RECALL MY FIRST TIME WITH A CONDOM, I WAS 13 OR SO.
I WENT IN TO BUY A PACKET OF CONDOMS AT THE PHARMACY.
THERE WAS THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ASSISTANT BEHIND THE COUNTER,
AND SHE COULD SEE THAT I WAS NEW AT IT.

SHE HANDED ME THE PACKAGE AND ASKED IF I KNEW HOW TO WEAR ONE?
I HONESTLY ANSWERED, 'NO, THIS IS MY FIRST TIME.' SO SHE UNWRAPPED THE PACKAGE,
TOOK ONE OUT AND SLIPPED IT OVER HER THUMB. SHE CAUTIONED ME TO MAKE SURE IT WAS TIGHT AND SECURE.
I APPARENTLY STILL LOOKED CONFUSED. SO SHE LOOKED ALL AROUND THE STORE TO SEE IF IT WAS EMPTY.
IT WAS EMPTY..

'JUST A MINUTE,' SHE SAID, AND WALKED TO THE DOOR, AND LOCKED IT.
SHE LED ME INTO THE BACK ROOM, UNBUTTONED HER BLOUSE AND REMOVED IT.
SHE UNHOOKED HER BRA AND LAID IT ASIDE. 'DO THESE EXCITE YOU?' SHE ASKED.
WELL, I WAS SO DUMB-STRUCK THAT ALL I COULD DO WAS NOD MY HEAD.
SHE THEN SAID IT WAS TIME TO SLIP THE CONDOM ON.

AS I WAS SLIPPING IT ON, SHE DROPPED HER SKIRT, REMOVED HER PANTIES
AND LAY DOWN ON A DESK. 'WELL, COME ON ,' SHE SAID, 'WE DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME .'
SO I CLIMBED ON HER. IT WAS SO WONDERFUL, THAT UNFORTUNATELY, I COULD NO LONGER HOLD BACK
AND KAPOW !!! I WAS DONE WITHIN A FEW MINUTES.

SHE LOOKED AT ME WITH A BIT OF A FROWN. 'DID YOU PUT THAT CONDOM ON?
SHE ASKED.  I SAID, 'I SURE DID,' AND HELD UP MY THUMB TO SHOW HER.

Dozens of emails were sent by fans of the Gully Gad wanting to know if OutAroad.com got the letter of the girl who talked about her sexual experience with Mavado. OutAroad.com immediately performs a search via Google and ran into this story posted on backstagepazz.com It all started when Mavado went to Jacksonville on 3/19/09 at a club called Plush.

I went right over and sat next to Mavado's cousin Chase Cross an up and coming reggae artist. So me and my friend were talking to him at this time Mavado makes references to my breast and pum pum in his native patois language I laughed and responded. I could tell he was impressed by my speaking and understanding what he was saying, I asked for a picture with him giving some dude my phone for the camera. Mavado grabbed my phone and called his phone to get my number and said I'll see you after the show. After some grinding and blatant flirting I knew I wasn't going to make it to work the next morning.

The show went really well I danced with his uncle and left immediately after trying to prepare for my booty call because I was sweated out. About 3:30 a.m. I got a call from anonymous number, I answered and he told me he was at the hyatt and to call when I'm outside and he will send someone to get me.

When I got there he was chilling in some shorts and a green yellow and red netted like wife beater, he said something quickly to his boy and then he invited me to a spliff I smoked and drank some more, he turned on some music and told me to whine and take off my clothes, while I'm dancing and taking off my clothes he turned on a lamp and off the lights, he grabbed my wrist and got the spliff he stayed behind me grinding and whine to my riddim, out of no where he got aggressive and pushed me against the back of the sofa he smacked my ass and began to pull down my thong, I stepped out of them now in just my stilettos, I turned towards him and ordered him to sit in his chair he went and sat.

I got on my knees and crawled to him, I unfastened his shorts he lifted up so I could take them off, that's when I realized just how skinny he really is I pulled out his d*ck, it was average I guess.

I began to deep throat him while jacking and slurping I could tell the slurping was turning him on, by the moans he was rubbing my head and calling me baby and when u hear a true Jamaican call you baby omg its a turn on! After I *u*ked him up for awhile I straddled him on the chair looking right in his face he grabbed yet another spliff and a condom.

He lit up while I was riding him I caught his riddim and by the look at his sex face I could tell I had him, I got up and he grabbed me asking what I was doing, I told him I wanted to turn around and ride him, I made a small joke about him not burning my back wit the spliff we shared a laugh and back to business.

Out of nowhere he pushed me off of him onto the floor and began to f*ck me from the back he smacked my ass and talked nasty nothings in my ear all the while I'm talking sh*t right back he told me to lay on my back, I laid on my back and opened wide he scissored me then put one knee behind the fold of my knee and f*cked me like that, at this time I'm feeling a little sick from the hennessy and he got me all bent up, he had to f*ck me for about 20 minutes alone in that position, he then turned me over on my stomach, he rubbed my ass for a minute then proceeded to smash from the back for about 15 more minutes at this time I'm thinking when will he finish?!?

I told him let me get on top, about 10 minutes after bouncing on him he finally bust, I laid on the floor for a sec to catch my breath got my clothes and went to the bathroom washed up and got dressed, I came out and he was smoking yet another spliff putting something in a gift bag.

I hit the spliff we had small talk about his show and our sex I told him I would see him later he said he would be back in November and he would call me, he said he looked forward to seeing me again I said the same he hugged me, kissed my lips, and gave me the gift bag it was his cd autographed, 2100 dollar bills and about an oz of ganja and a shirt that read "I'm so special" and I rushed home to call my friend with my story to tell! I won't rate him on his size because he is average but I will give him a 10 solely on stamina and he put me in a position I never been in and the fact he treated me well.

Though he is a celeb he f**ked with passion he's a cool guy and real down to earth, what can I say, he's so special...

That scissor sh*t sounds like straight Karma Sutra. I ain't mad...

-- Edited by Niquee on Sunday 21st of June 2009 12:43:49 PM

-- Edited by bLaCkBeatZ on Sunday 21st of June 2009 03:04:46 PM

(CNN) -- Healthier men, no matter their age, are going to have better sex more frequently and desire it more often than healthier women.

And a healthier sex life could mean a longer life.

That's according to a paper written by University of Chicago researchers that was published Tuesday in the British Medical Journal. While the supposition that men think about sex more than women isn't new, the paper's findings have wider implication for attitudes toward public health and how patients respond to doctors' advice, said Dr. Stacy Tessler Lindau, an associate professor of obstetrics and gynecology and geriatric medicine who spearheaded the research.

"If you are a man diagnosed with diabetes or high *lo** pressure and I tell you that you need to lose weight and take medication, and I can say the benefit is five extra years of sex life, you might be more inclined to do what I tell you," she explained.

Lindau said that women generally reported wanting less sex or receiving it less often for three reasons: Women outlive men by an average of five to six years and without a partner, women are less likely to engage in sex. Secondly, there's a Western cultural acceptance -- and removal of stigma -- of men who have erectile dysfunction and have turned to relatively recently marketed drugs such as Viagra; women don't have that.

"Also, there's a difference in how we treat women for other diseases that affect their sexual desire," Lindau said. "If a woman is diagnosed with breast cancer and she has, for example, her breasts removed, and we never counsel her about her sexual function, we start to realize how many years of life she's losing. Not doing those things could mean 10 years of lost sexual activity."

There are no FDA approved treatments for female sexual dysfunction other than estrogen to treat pain with intercourse, she said.

Lindau's paper was sponsored by the nonprofit National Institutes of Health.

The paper considers data from two previously published studies that included more than 6,000 men and women, split into two co-ed groups: The first was age 25 to 74. The second group was age 57 to 85. Ninety-eight percent of participants reported having sexual partners only of the opposite sex, she said. Roughly 80 percent of men and 65 percent of women in the study were married or living with a partner.

None of the study's participants was in a nursing home.

Questions were presented that asked them to give their relationship status and rate their health and the quality of their sex life from poor to excellent.

Excellent was defined not by the number of times someone had sex but the emotional and physical satisfaction of the experience. But, the survey described having sex "regularly" as two to three times a month, said Lindau.

Sex was defined to the 57- to 85-year-old group as "any mutually voluntary activity with another person that involves sexual contact, whether or not intercourse or orgasm occurs" in the past year. For the same time frame, those in the 25-74 age group were asked if they had "had sex with anyone."

Participants had the option of assigning a number rating to their sex life, including "0" for "the worst possible situation." That phrase was up to them to interpret, said Lindau.

The physician concluded that men are more likely to be sexually active, have what they believe is better sex and are consistently more interested in sex than women. This drive for sex among men and the feeling that the sex they get is high quality doesn't diminish with age. Lindau said it was difficult to ascertain exactly how many of these participants might have taken erectile dysfunction drugs.

If men stay in good shape, they can enjoy more years of good sex, the study says. At age 55, men in very good or excellent health on average gained five to seven years of sexually active life compared with their peers in poorer health. Women in very good shape gained 3 to 6 more years of a quality sex life than women who are less healthy.

For women 60 years and older, sex dropped off significantly overall and was even lower among those without partners. For men in that age range, having a partner didn't matter -- they still wanted sex consistently, the study found.

Among 75- to 85-year-old men, four out of 10 were still having sex, compared with two out of 10 women that age. Women whose partners were still alive, however, were having just as much sex as men, said Lindau.

"I don't want to perpetuate the notion that older women don't desire sex," she said. "There's a glass half full here. There's a big hunk of older women still having sex. Women who initiate relationships later in life -- they describe passionate love and sex like the way younger people do."

Lindau said she was frustrated that her sampling was limited to heterosexuals, a typical quandary many experience when testing this topic, she said. She hopes to conduct another study focusing on aging homosexuals, bisexuals or people whose biological sex cannot be classified as either male or female.

PHONE CREDIT - Women love to talk, thats all they do most of the time. If there was one thing a woman could avoid doing for a couple a hours talking wouldnt be one of them, so buy her some credit. TALK IS CHEAP AND SO IS CREDIT .. 



MOVIE Nothing says I love you more than two people sharing the company of each other. Take her for one of those 2 for 1 special. ITS EASY ON THE EYES AND EASIER ON THE POCKETS.



HOPE GARDENS - Mother Nature has a loving side so show her it. Its a good place to carry those LIGHTHEADED females who are in love with their bellies. A surprise is in store for these girls who choose try to pull off the buy mi dat nuh slang a laugh will come about from this one as there is nothing to buy at HOPE GARDENS.



SUNDAY DINNER Girls love a guy who can cook. or whose mother can, she doesnt have to know. Just be sure to inform your parents about the extra person at the table and your all set. 



JUICY BEEF / TASTEE - Love is in the air and so are patties. WHO DOESNT EAT THEM? There are so many kinds to choose from nowadays its hard for her to say no to a nice romantic dinner which I call patty under candlelight Ideal for making a memory in your relationship. 



GREETING CARD Remember when you were in primary school? Does the subject ARTS AND CRAFT ring a bell? Well its time to pull out the glue and glitter. Make her a Valentines Day card and be sure to make it look like youre still in the 3rd grade equipped with misspelt words and little red hearts. E.g. WUD U BE MY VALLENTINE yes () no() 



LOVE ALBUM Create an album with her favorite compilation of love songs burn it and gift wrap it complete with a bow give the album a catchy name like BABY MI LUV YUH or GIRL YOU ARE MY HEARTBEAT be sure to put Vybz Kartels ramping shop on it who knows ..maybe you even get to play it for her . .hint hint



PIGGY PAN Let your creative juices flow, make her a saving pan. Let her know your intentions that you are not one to spend on frivolous Valentines Day Luxuries. Be sure to have the phrase SAVING OUR LOVE WHILE SAVING OUR MONEY



HELLSHIRE BEACH This might seem like an expensive move but it is in fact is not. Be sure to go early as JUTC runs scarce to the HELLSHIRE AREA. Go with an open mind, is fish unnu aguh nyam Be sure to average her, meaning..keep in mind is two fish she going probably get fi nyam


JEWELERY - It so happens that i keep abreast with all sales that are occurring in and around kingston, and JEWELERY KING is one of them get her a nice watch which might run u less than a 1000 dollas and get it engraved for an additional price of 150.



Love doesnt have to be expensive enuh............its the thought that counts...........it really is....so girls doh give him too much of a hard time if he does any of the above for you........its the slimnerd way and since i killed CUPID.........i have to do what he'd normally do..... 


-- Edited by slimnerdz on Sunday 14th of February 2010 02:59:32 PM

nice ting same way,..

By rockingir at 2010-02-21

 IF A MAN WANTS YOU
 If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.  
 If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.  
  Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. 
 Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.  
 Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.  
 Slower is better.  
 Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.  
 If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve  
 then heck no, you can't 'be friends.' A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.  
 Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.  
 Don't stay because you think 'it will get better.' You'll be mad at yourself  
 a year later for staying when things are not better.  
 The only person you can control in a relationship is you.  
 Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.  
 He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,  
 Why would he treat you any differently?  
 Always have your own set of friends separate from his.  
 Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.  
 If something bothers you, speak up.  
 Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.  
 You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.  
 Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has  
 more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.  
 He is a man, nothing more nothing less.  
 Never let a man define who you are.  
 Never borrow someone else's man.  
 Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.  
 A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.  
 All men are NOT dogs. 
 You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.  
 You need time to heal between relationships..........there is nothing cute about  
 baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship  
 You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists  
 of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.  
 Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.  
 Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your  
 always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.  
 Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.  
 Keep him in your radar but get to know others.  
 Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another  
 RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.  
 They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate  
 them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them

-- Edited by MZJ on Tuesday 17th of November 2009 01:27:47 AM

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-- Edited by BABY at 11:00, 2009-02-21

AS FOR FEW MEN WHO BELIEVE THAT WHEN A WOMAN DOES NOT CRY FOR PAINFUL SEX THEY'LL DISCRIMINATE ABOUT ""BIG PUSY GYAL"" HERE I GOT FEW DOCTOR TIPS

how hot is she rate her

New world 800m champion Caster Semenya has shrugged off the gender controversy shrouding her victory at the World Championships in Berlin.

Semenya has been dogged by suspicion about her gender since emerging on the athletics scene three weeks ago.

As a result, she has been asked by the International Association of Athletics Federations to undergo a gender test.

When asked to comment by reporters, the 18-year-old replied: "I don't give a damn about it."

The IAAF first requested the teenager undergo a gender test after she posted a world leading time of 1 minute 56.72 seconds at the African junior championships in Bambous, Maruitius at the end of July.

Due to the speed of her rise from unknown competitor to eventual world champion, a gender test, which takes several weeks to complete, could not be done in time for the world championships.

The official IAAF policy document on gender verification states that one of the steps required for handling such cases is that "the athlete is referred to the investigating authority in confidence for further investigation and advice".

The IAAF announced her undertaking of the test prior to her participation in the women's 800m final in Berlin, a decision that has resulted in criticism of the sport's governing body.

Former Olympic heptathlon gold medallist Denise Lewis described the treatment of Semenya as "absolutely dreadful".

It's awful she had to compete with this hanging over her head," said Lewis. "It should have been sorted out much, much sooner than this."

Four-time Olympic gold medallist Michael Johnson believes that in the current climate the IAAF had to act on the issue but was critical of the manner in which this was done.

"We have to take it at face value that she's entered in the right race and the gender is what the South Africans claim it is," said the American.

"The consensus is that it is highly unfair and embar****ing to the athlete but at the same time we've had so many athletes who have doped over the last decade in this sport, so we know people will cheat for success.

"I think what the IAAF is doing is the right thing in terms of dealing with the situation, but the way they're dealing with it is all wrong."

Former world 1500m champion Steve Cram was similarly damning of the decision and suggested the IAAF may have been attempting to force Semenya's withdrawal.

"I think the timing is incredibly unfair on her," said Cram.

"Without putting words in the mouth of the IAAF I think there was an assumption that maybe the South African federation would understand the questions that were going to be asked and might have persuaded her not to compete but that was never going to happen."

South Africa's ruling party, the ANC, has called on South Africans to rally around "our golden girl".

"Such comments can only serve to portray women as being weak," read an ANC statement. "Caster is not the only woman athlete with a masculine build and the International Association of Athletics Federation should know better."

Gideon Sam, president of South Africa's Olympic governing body, criticised the manner in which Semenya had been treated.

"We condemn the way she was linked with such media speculation and allegation, especially on a day she ran in the final of her first major world event," he said.

"We have every faith in Athletics South Africa and the team they selected to attend the World Championships in Berlin."

Semenya will once again be subjected to the glare of the media spotlight on Thursday at about 1730 BST when she is due to be presented with her gold medal after winning the 800m final in a new world leading time of 1 minute 55.45 seconds.

Great Britain's Jenny Meadows, who could have her bronze medal increased to silver if Semenya fails her test, says the issue is now purely in the hands of the IAAF.

"There's nothing we can do as athletes and it's a difficult situation for Caster herself to be in but we've got to leave to to the discretion of the IAAF," she said.

Semenya's mother, Dorcus, has leapt to the defence of her child, telling the Star newspaper: "I am not even worried about that (claims she is a male) because I know who and what my child is.

"Mokgadi (Caster Semenya) is a girl and no one can change that.

"If you go (to) my home village and ask any of my neighbours, they would tell you that Mokgadi is a girl.

"They know because they helped raise her. People can say whatever they like but the truth will remain, which is that my child is a girl."

________________________________________________________________________________

 

Million dollar question guys is this a man or a woman and  whould u **** her

 

 

This Jamaican woman felt that her love life was slipping because her husband had no more interest in sex. While shopping one day, she passed an adult shop and saw some crotchless panties, so she decided to buy one and try to use it to excite and seduce him.

That evening she took a long bath, put on a favorite perfume, and then she put on a sexy negligee and her new crotchless panties. Then she slithered into the room where her husband was watching TV as usual.

She stands right in front of him, with one foot resting high on the ottoman, negligee wide open, and whispers "yu wah some a dis?".

Her husband looks up at her wide-eyed and says. "No sah, yu mad, yuh nuh see wha it do to yu panty!"

-- Edited by shottafiyah on Friday 30th of October 2009 08:55:42 AM

 

 

-- Edited by MZJ at 18:11, 2009-02-13

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Cover Girl
Lindsey Roeper.

Playmate: Lindsay Wagner
Miss November, Lindsay Wagner, may not be the Bionic Woman, but this Cornhusker is a knockout both in and out of the ring.

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Big Post Again...Views of ppl why they cheat..both men and woman...its kinda long but worth reading

Sometimes, when the going gets tough, the tough get it on with someone else. But what really makes men stray? A nagging girlfriend? Bad sex? An escape from loneliness? Yes, yes and yes. Hear why these men slipped away from their girlfriends and landed in someone else's bed. Then whether you're a guy or a girl use the info below to sidestep this kind of situation in your love life.

Reason #1: For payback
"I once cheated on my girlfriend after I saw on her cell phone that she had been text-messaging with her ex. They were pretty harmless messages, but it angered me that she had been communicating with him in the first place I'd always thought they were a little too chummy. That night, I was out with friends and had a lot to drink. I got so worked up about those messages that I pretty much made it my mission to find another girl and hook up with her, which I did. I think it was a payback thing. We eventually broke up, but not because of that incident I never told her but more so because we just weren't right for each other. I know it wasn't the best way to handle my anger, but at the time, it sure did feel good."
 Christopher, 29, Oakland, CA

Reason #2: The physical attraction just isn't there
"Ever since I can remember, I have always been attracted to women with large chests. My ex-girlfriend was great in a lot of ways, but she was completely flat-chested, which did absolutely nothing to make me sexually attracted to her. I tried to look past it, but it was hard. About two months into our relationship, I was out with a bunch of friends at a sports bar, and our incredibly hot and ample-chested waitress was really hitting on me. She gave me her number and asked me if I wanted me to meet her after her shift was over. I agreed, and ended up sleeping with her. It was just a one night thing, but it helped me realize I needed to end things with my girlfriend, because I had to be with someone I was madly attracted to."
 Dave, 26, Roanoke, VA

Reason #3: She just isn't there
"I cheated on my ex at a time when she was traveling so much that I never saw her. It was almost as if I didn't have a girlfriend. I got so lonely especially on the weekend nights, and I missed that companionship, both physically and emotionally. When she was gone, I began seeing someone else while I was still technically seeing my ex. I ended up telling my ex and she broke it off with me. In the end, I think things ended for the better, even though the steps I took to make it happen weren't very honorable. I now make sure that whoever I choose to date doesn't have a job that requires big-time traveling."
 Scott, 30, Jessup, MD

Reason #4: He thinks he's missing out
"I had dated Melanie all through college ever since we met at orientation. After we graduated, I moved to New York and she moved to Chicago, but we decided we'd stay together. I spent nearly every weekend traveling to see her, but during the week, I'd go out with my friends in New York and have a blast. After a few months of that drill, I knew staying true to her would be tough; going out in the city made me realize how many smart, beautiful women are out there, and never having been with anyone other than Melanie made me feel like I was missing out on a lot of fun. One night I hooked up with another girl, which finally made me realize I had to end things with Melanie. I told her what happened, and, as it turned out, she had done the same thing a few times. While we were both hurt, we realized we needed to take some time off. We stayed friends, and still are today, even though we're married to different people."
 Tom, 35, New York, NY

Reason #5: He's moved on emotionally
"I met my ex in a Weight Watchers meeting, of all places. When we started dating, we were both about 50 pounds overweight. As the months went by, I took the program really seriously and quickly dropped weight. She didn't adhere to the program, and her weight didn't come off. After I lost the weight, I felt this new sense of confidence women who had never spoken to me before began approaching me, and it felt great. My ex, on the other hand, was depressed about being heavy, and was always jealous of other women. One weekend when she was out of town, I met this gorgeous woman at my gym and we slept together. I never told my ex, but I did end up breaking up with her a few weeks after that incident. I've realized since then that I need to be with women who are on the same page as me about the things in my life that are important."
 Brad, 41, Houston, TX

Reason #6: There's too much fighting
"My ex and I used to live together, and we fought all the time. The constant tension made me miserable. In contrast to my ex, there was a girl at work who was easygoing, friendly and fun. One night we were both working late and ended up getting a drink together after we left. One thing led to another, and I ended up staying over at her place. As bad as this may sound, after that happened, I felt free. It was as if I finally had the courage to just end it with my ex already. When I came home the next morning, my ex went crazy, but for the first time, it didn't bother me, because I knew what I was going to do. I told her exactly what had happened and that I'd be moving out that week, and I did. I began seeing the girl from work, and we've been together for about four months now."
 Nate, 34, Boulder, CO

Reason #7: He needs a shot of self-esteem
"I'm really shy, and have never felt very comfortable approaching women. I once had a girlfriend who was just as shy as me. Our relationship was fine nothing too exciting but I was resigned to the fact that it was my best option. I went to a conference for business, and during one of the dinners, a really attractive, sexy woman at my table began hitting on me like mad. I was so shocked; nothing like that had ever happened to me before. It made my self-confidence skyrocket, and I felt on top of the world. She and I were together that night and a few other times during the conference. I never told my ex about what had happened, but I did end things with her a few months later. After the conference the other woman and I never saw each other again, but the experience gave me the confidence that I could go out and approach interesting, exciting women I just needed that push."
 Charlie, 33, St. Louis, MO

Reason #8: To fulfill a fantasy
"I once cheated on my girlfriend of six months when a girl I had been pining over for quite some time came on to me. She had been with someone else for a long time, so I knew she was off-limits. I have to admit, I'd still probably do it again; it was like my fantasy finally came true. I broke up with my girlfriend and dated this girl for a while, but we didn't last. Sometimes, the fantasy is better than the reality!"
 Mark, 44, New York, NY

 

 

 

 

 

WHYI CHEATED WOMAN FES UP

 

 

 

 

 

You've probably heard that men cheat for physical reasons, women for emotional reasons. Sure, there's some truth to that, but when we asked real women around the country to share why they strayed from their boyfriends, we learned they had a whole host of explanationsfrom bad kissing to sheer revenge. Read on for the truth about why women have given in to temptation.

Reason #1: There's no passion
"I had been with John for about three yearshe was a really nice guy, and I enjoyed being with him, but there wasn't a ton of passion. Most everyone we knew had gotten engaged, and though John would have proposed in a second, whenever he brought it up, I'd change the subject. I took a trip to Australia for work, and while I was gone, I got together with a co-worker to whom I'd always been insanely attracted. I had a fantastic trip, probably because for the first time in a long time I experienced that excitement I'd been missing. I broke up with John soon after I returned home, and began dating the guy from the trip. Even though I'm not super-proud of my actions, things ended up for the best: After dating for a few years, the guy from the trip and I got married, and we're incredibly happy together."
Giselle, 30, Montvale, NJ

Reason #2: To delay a breakup
"Right before I was going to break up with my ex, Sean, he found out that he had to put his beloved dog to sleep. He was so broken up about it that I didn't have the heart to end things, so I waited a month or so until he was in better shape. When things seemed to be better and I was ready, he lost his job, so I felt like I was back to square one! By that time, I had met someone else that I really wanted to start seeing, so I went ahead and did it. I eventually ended things, never telling Sean about my extra-curricular dating. I think I rationalized that I was trying to spare his feelings."
Stacy, 30, Lexington, KY

Reason #3: Because absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder
"My boyfriend Greg and I decided to do the long-distance thing after I was accepted to a graduate program 200 miles from where we lived. The first few months were fine, but I soon found myself becoming extremely attracted to my lab partner, Henry. What began as innocent flirting eventually wound up with us in bed. After the program was over, I returned home to Greg. Being with him was really difficult, but I didn't break up with him initially because I was still attracted to him, too. I visited Henry a few times, and realized that he was really more of a fling, probably born out of boredom, and that Greg was the one for me. I eventually stopped communicating with Henry. I never told Greg about what happened, which occasionally makes me feel guilty, but I chalk my cheating up to being young and silly. He and I are still together, four years since my program ended."
Tamara, 33, Portland, OR

Reason #4: So she's not left out in the cold
"I began dating Eric shortly after I had been dumped by Dave, my boyfriend of two years. I was devastated and Eric was definitely a rebound thing. After Eric and I had dated for five months, Dave came back and wanted to give things another shot. I still really missed him, so I began seeing him, but never ended things with Eric. I think I sort of kept Eric around for insurance purposes, just in case things didn't end up well with Dave. Dave and I didn't make it on round two, and after Eric discovered through mutual friends that I had been seeing him again, he ended things with me. I definitely learned my lesson about dating two guys at the same time, not to mention trying to rekindle a relationship that's just plain over."
Jen, 28, Oak Park, IL

Reason #5: She deserves better
"When I was younger, I dated a guy named Ethan who was really critical of me. He constantly made little snide comments about my weight, how stupid I was and how clumsy I was. For whatever odd reason, I was into him, despite the fact that all of my friends and family hated him. One weekend when he was away, I met Will at a party and we completely hit it off. He was the complete opposite of Ethankind, sweet and generous, yet completely cool and fun, too. We hung out all weekend and it was like a light bulb went off in my head: This is how mature, relationship-worthy guys act. I hooked up with Will the night before he left, and broke up with Ethan soon after. Will and I dated for three years and now we're married."
Allison, 30, New York, NY

Reason #6: She's looking for a missing piece
"I'm from Florida, so I adore going to the beach and boating, but my former boyfriend, Chris, a total city boy, hated it. We always argued about where we'd take trips, and he always won. About eight months into our dating, I took a trip to Key West with my friends and we chartered a boat for the day. The captain of the boat was this totally hot, complete beach guy for life' type, and I spent the whole day flirting with him. We met him out that night, and he and I got together. I never told Chris about it after I got home and I never felt guilty; I think part of me felt like that's what Chris got for being so stubborn! Chris and I didn't make it, and after we broke up, I made sure any future boyfriends loved the beach!"
Lizzie, 32, Chicago, IL

Reason #7: To give him a taste of his own medicine
"My last boyfriend was a total player before we got together. I thought I could change him, but I was wrong. I always heard rumors that he was hooking up with other girls while we were dating, but he always denied it. One night, I got a call from a girl he had been seeing, and she detailed their three-month-long relationship to me and told me about another girl she had discovered he was seeing as well. I was so mad that I went out with my friends that night, dressed to kill, and went home with the hottest guy I could find; I felt like it was the least he deserved! I loved seeing the look on his face when I told him about what I did and that I knew about the other girls. And then I dumped him!"
Ashante, 25, College Park, GA

Reason #8: There's something lacking in the physical department
"My ex was a terrible kisserthe worst! I really liked everything else about him, but whenever it came time to get physical, I just cringed. One night when I was at a party without him, a bunch of people started this old-school, yet fairly intense game of spin the bottle, and I felt like I had to join, as I hadn't had a decent kiss in a long time! I probably kissed about 10 guys that night, all of whom were so much better than my ex. I ended things pretty quickly after that experience, which made me realize that the physical part of a relationship is truly important."
Marnie, 26, San Francisco, CA

 

-- Edited by ssugarlipss (Admin) on Friday 6th of November 2009 04:52:52 PM

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