Dear Pastor,
I am in deep distress. It all started when I was living in Jamaica. Five years ago, I left Jamaica to live with my mom in England. When I landed in England my mom was married to a man who was not my father. One day I was in the bathroom
and this man opened the door and said" lets make love". I asked him what he meant and he said to me "shut up or get out of my house". I did not know how to tell my mom because my mom probably would not believe me anyway, so I did not say anything about it, but it continued until I got pregnant. It's my first child and I don't believe in abortion.Pastor, please help me, because my mom will eventually find out that I am pregnant and I will have to tell her who is the father. Do I tell her that it's her husband or wait until the child is born to tell her the truth? I need help right now.
S. P., Birmingham, England
Dear S. P.,
I regret hearing that your stepfather has been having sex with you and has finally got you pregnant. I am concerned about your situation and that is why I am responding to you immediately.
I want you to tell your mother what has happened. Tell her the whole truth. I can understand why you did not report his behaviour to your mother the first day he sexually abused you.
If you feel you will need a relative to be with you when you are informing your mother, please ask someone to be with you.
Please don't try to do a 'back door' abortion. Please let me hear from you after you have talked to your mother. Be prepared to hear your stepfather deny everything that you say.
Pastor
Dear Pastor,
I realised that I need help after talking with a friend. I am 17 years old and live with my mother, who is destroying my life.
My mother had her first child, my sister, now 26, at 16. Then she had six more. All of her children have suffered. The first one was taken to a home because my mother left her in a car shortly after she was born.
Hungry
When I was about 13, she used to make all of us go to town and sell while she stayed home. If we got hungry while selling ginger and thyme in the sun, we were not allowed to use any of the money to buy food, not even a sweety. That was how bad it was. Because of this, my sister ran away and got pregnant. My mother did not even look for her. My sister was just 17.
When I was 15, she allowed a man who liked me to sleep in her house with me on the same bed because he paid her to do that. He told her that he had locked his keys in his car. That night I was raped. I told her, but she did not believe me.
Abortion
After about two months, she noticed that I was pregnant. She took me to do an illegal abortion and argued that it was not him who got me pregnant, after beating me. She does not work, but yet she loves money. Because of her, I am with a man who is 50 years old. He is old enough to be my father.
I cannot help the situation because he has assisted me through high school. He got me pregnant twice and she made me have abortions. Because of the abortions I am having constant infections and bleeding problems.
I have to sleep with him because if I don't, our rent will not be paid. I do not eat, go to school or have any money at all. If I decide I do not want to talk to him or answer his calls, she curses me and beats me. I am now 17 and I am still living like this.
Pastor, tell me, should I run away or move out? If I do, I am afraid I won't be able to make it. I am currently in school and I pray every night for help. I am suffering in hell. Please, help me.
S.S., Kingston, Jamaica
Dear S.S.,
Your mother should be doing time in prison for what she did to you. She has caused you to prostitute yourself. She has not tried to protect her girl children. Instead, she has turned into a pimp.
I suggest that you call a family counsellor and make an appointment to see him/her. It is sad that you have been selling yourself to survive.
Pastor
And can you believe it when the wife questions him about the caller who dissed her, he has an attitude and actually starts to defend her!!
What is the power that these skettels have over you guys that makes you lose your sensesditching all you have worked so hard to build up?
Let's be real hereyou gonna tell me that this woman gives the wickedest slam and all that crap...so at the end of the day was it worth the breakup of your family?
In case you think this is all mb*m**ocla jb*m**ocla, I have seen professional men acting like idiots around these skettels. They jump and the poor fools asks 'how high'. They shell out money as if it's going out of style to cater to these women's needs and in return, sooner or later wifey can't take any more and she walks out.
Seriously the reason for this article came about because of a friend who allowed his marriage to fall apart over a loud, non ambitious female...who in the end when his wife left him, told him she wasn't interested in washing, cooking or any of that stuff as that's
what's wives are for! He ended up being a drunkard, lost his job and the respect of his friends.
So at the end of the day this one goes out to the guys...tell me...at the end of the day what's the real cost for a good slam?
Chris Wallace, better known as The Notorious B.I.G., Biggie Smalls or Big Poppa, lived up to his various nicknames. He was a force to be reckoned with in the rap world and remains an enormous influence a decade after his death. Brooklyn born and bred, Wallace dropped out of school at age 17 and turned to a life of crime. He spent nine months in prison for dealing crack. Soon after getting out in 1992, he parlayed his amateur rhymes into a record contract and started working with some of the biggest names in the business: Sean "Puffy" C****s, LL Cool J, Mary J. Blige and Tupac Shakur.
Deejay Einstein has broken his silence about a shooting incident that occurred last Wednesday night at a popular studio in St Andrew.
The STAR understands that Einstein, whose real name is Jermaine Shaw, and another deejay, Blak Ryno (Romain Anderson), have been linked to the shooting in the parking lot of the studio.
The Half-Way Tree police took 10 persons into custody for questioning, including Blak Ryno.
Time of shooting
Similar to Blak Ryno, who on Thursday told THE STAR he was arriving at the studio at the time of the shooting, Einstein is denying that he was involved.
Einstein said he was at the studio doing dubs when he took a break to get food.After relaxing in the parking lot, Einstein said he left the scene with a friend. "I was on my way to get some seafood when I got a call and dem seh mi involve inna some shooting at di studio. Mi link call and seh bare police down there and dem a seh mi and Blak Ryno a fight," he said.
Einstein said he headed back to the studio where he saw a number of police personnel but decided it was in his best interest to leave. Since then, Einstein said he has received numerous calls from persons talking about the incident.
"Blak Ryno is Portmore Empire and me a Alliance, so if mi deh somewhere people a go try stir up some tings. Blak Ryno a di only one inna Portmore Empire who no call up nobody name and mi a di only one inna Alliance who nah call up nobody name, but people waah know who badda, dem a try stir up a lyrical feud," he said.
KARTEL AND SPICE LOCK BEACH SEXY
How the Empire ah move so hard? Kartel and Spice go lock Nikki Z Beach Sexy party over Sugarman Beach inna Portmore last night and it was all good. Dem new song Ramping Shop ah go hard and dem lock the place with it couple times. It was overall a very nice party, DAngel and Macka were there when the cake was being cut and before that, Nikki Z hooked up with her mother via a long distance call. Parts of the phone call were garbled and so only bits and pieces sometimes came out but it was really sweet. Pepe Goodison was also in the house. DAngel sang Stronger for Nikki Z, while selectors Raz and Biggy, ZJ Liquid, Foota Hype and Boom Boom played excellent sets. Foota and Boom Boom also bigged up Vybz Kartel while they were playing, and we love fi see that because people realize say the ting ah get outta hand now. We love fi see dem tings de. Big up Nikki Z on her birthday, how old is she anyway?
GAVESHA HOSTS BABYSHOWER IN BKLYN
One of mi girlfriends dem just call me and tell me that Gavesha is having a big bashment babyshower today in Brooklyn. Mi hear say it ah go mad. She mek me know say she ah go de de fi give me the juicy details on what went down and all these things. Check the Monday Water Cooler fi the whole cereal. One876 to the weerrrlll.
WHERE IS SIZZLA?
Mi see somebody post a ting about Sizzlas immigration woes on the site and mi ask de one876 writers dem fi send an email to Olimatta Taal, his publicist to find out what is going on regarding his visa. As soon as mi get an argument, mi ah go mek yu know what a go down.
HEZRON FOR RED BONES THIS WEDS.
Hezron mash up Wolmers Barbecue last week and him perform last night at Carlos Café anniversary event and now mi hear say the man ah go perform at Red Bones. Right now, the man things destined fi shot, So In Love de pon a number of Caribbean charts and the disc jockeys say dem love the new song Needy and Greedy. It ah go hard. To book Hezron for upcoming shows, you can give a holler at 1(876) 857-7185
DAVILLES ROAD MANAGER IS DEAD
It is with out deepest sympathy that we announce the death of Robert Bogle, known to most as "Bogle" , best friend, road manager and assistant to reggae singer Da'Ville and the Fashozy Records team.
Bogle has been the Da'Ville's right hand from the early days of his early career and he will be deeply missed. His family and close friends would like you to respect his death and their privacy at this time. Funeral arrangements will be announced shortly.
PEOPLE WAAN FI KNOW
How Spice so hype wid her orange Pajero?
Why me haffi talk up the tings dem bout Ms. Ting BMW? Memba say people did a say ah Beenie did buy her a nice Rav4 and all these things when she did get the big song and she sell it and now she gone back down to pot scrapings. Anno nothing. She hit already, she can find a next big song, doan, New York?
How Richie Feelings go Bembe and gwaan so hard? The man mash up the ting, everybody ah say the night shoulda name Return of the Mack. The man gwaan terrible over de so how dem a gwaan like dem own Kingston 8 and mi no see dem name pon no land title, weh dem feel like?
Rivals deejay Vybz Kartel and singer Mavado exchanged disses at Champions in Action this morning.
Kartel suggested that "ah pure fish live inna the gully' while Mavado continued to protest that a member of the Empire entourage had put a tattoo with Kartel's name on his neck, a sure sign of homosexual behaviour. Kartel also hurled disses at his former friend, Bling Dawg, call him a 'bwoy'.
Kartel earned big forwards for Wah Dat Fah? but Mavado blew up with his hit songs, and also earned additional forwards for two new songs that had the audience in a tizzy. He closed the show alongside his mentor and friend Bounty Killer, and the huge crowd at Jamworld waited until they finished performing to leave. Mavado easily got the most forwards on a night when Shaggy, Assassin and Ninjaman also performed well. Assassin delivered one of his best ever performances. Beenie Man was not booked to attend the show.
Empire members Blak Ryno and Jahvinchi showed why they were considered rising powers in the dancehall game. Blak Ryno was simply awesome as he did Mek Di Paper and Thug Anthem, while Jahvinchi got a big ovation when he hit the stage to sing Askella Spray.Signs that Vybz Kartel is REALLY EVIL
Proof # 1- His Ring
This ring has the Masonic Sign- Square and Compasses, which shows that he believes in freemasonry.
#2- His song on Day Break Riddim- Broad Day Light
He says: ' mi reach 33 degrees a masonry heights a evil'
From a site i was reasearching on.......a satanist wrote:
'I know for a fact that when you get to 33rd degree Freemasonary the final secret is, Satan is God.
The church of Satan helped design freemasonary in the same philosophy as this.
'Le Vey was the head of the church of Satan in the 1960's and he was theone who became a head mason. He designed this in the same format as thechurch of satan'
#3- The signs he does.....
Thats a masonic sign...it has a specific meaning, wasnt interested in finding out what it means.
#4- Another line from one of his songs....
Severaltimes in the Old Testament we read about a land flowing with milk andhoney. The land which God gave the Israelites after their departurefrom Egypt , the land of Canaan or the 'promised land,' was this landwhich was figuratively painted as flowing with milk and honey.
Kartel says in a song dont remember the name now ' bout milk and honey go *u*k yuh muma angel'
isnt that dissing God???
Theseare just little hints my friend and i found.......from what iheard....he joined a colt, he always gets out of any court case, iheard it is a secret society so there's not really much proof of this.
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Ok so recently I've been thinking about starting
my own blogs and stuff in my spear time so from time to time I
will come up with fairly unusual subjects which hardly get any
exposure amongst a large or even a small crowd.
Ok so today I was reading a small little leaflet and it was giving
information on boys and how the body changes from
adolescence to manhood. I stumbled upon the word
circumcision.
MEN THIS QUESTION IS FOR YOU.
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN CIRCUMCISED BUT HAS NEVER MENTIONED THIS TO YOU EVER.HOW WOULD YOU FEEL TO KNOW THAT SHE WON'T GET THE AMOUNT OF SATISFACTION YOU WOULD LIKE TO GIVE HER AND THE AMOUNT OF SATISFACTION SHE WOULD RECEIVE IF SHE HADN'T BEEN CIRCUMCISED.WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR RESPONSE WOULD BE I MEAN THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX I KNOW MOST OF YOU WOULD SAY WHEN YOU REAH THAT BRIDGE YOU CROSS IT BUT PUT YOURSELF INTO THOSE SHOE'S.
LADIES THIS QUESTION IS FOR YOU.
DOES IT MATTER IF A MAN IS CIRCUMCISED .EVERY LADY HAS DIFFERENT PREFERENCES AND PERSONALLY I LIKE GUYS WHO ARE CIRCUMCISED BECAUSE I FEEL THEY ARE CLEANER NOT SAYING THAT THE GUYS WHO ARE NOT CIRCUMCISED ARE NOT CLEAN BUT THATS MY PREFERENCE.HOW DOES IT BENEFIT UR SEX LIFE IF YOU'VE SLEPT WITH A MAN WHO HAS BEEN CIRCUMCISED TO A MAN WHO HASNN'T BEEN CIRCUMCISED?
Remember these are just my personal views and questions
And please give sensible answers if you don't have anything constructive to say
towards the topic please don't say anything at all thank u N